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harith ami & muhriz

salam,
lama kot tak update.Huu password pon lupa and malas nak kisah sebab kene berebut laptop ni dgn Muhsin.Muhsin mmg amat tak suka mama or babah die pegang laptop.Handphone pon sama tapi ok lagi la.So dah 2015.Kami start tahun ni dgn adik punya 2nd dilation di HKL Paed Surgical Unit.every 3months kene dilate his esophagus sebab hari tu buat swallow test,surgeon and also ourselves (me and hubby) nampak stricture(narrowing) yg quite bad.Sebab tu die tak boleh swallow chunky food mmg die muntahkan balik.Other than than,weight gain mmg a problem.Dato Zack suggested buat gastrostomy tapi kami mmg refuse,tak nak lah.He's a very active kid.Lagi tak diam dari abangnya.Tube tu will just restrict his activities.And risau ditarik or kacaunya pulak ada risk of infection.So sekarang every month ada appt with dietitian jugak.It's okay adik,we'll go through this together :) Muhsin ni,if he doesnot take off his shirt,you'll never know what he had gone through.Our baby miracle,sometimes tak caya dah besar ni,everynite pon jadi mangsa cium semua org including his bro pon suka jugak gomol adik die peluk la kiss la.pastu gaduh sambung sepak2 tampar2 nangis meraung plak,pastu both kene time out,huhhh
On Muhriz,masuk school lambat 1week dari orang lain tapi he's doing great dari 1st day at his new school ni.Tak nangis ,no drama tanak gi school.Kami tukarkan sekolah die for a few reasons.Cikgu die cakap dari pagi nampak muka cool je huhu.3rd day siap tolong cikgu kemaskan classroom when the rest of his classmates bertenpiaran main kat luar.Macam last year,hubby hantar and at 12pm mama and adik ambil.Muhriz ni so far kami perhatikan,he's quite independence,takde perangai sgt unless kita tak ambil kisah or tak faham what he's trying to cakap/tanya.Haa ini mmg mengundang marah dan amokan die la.Mengamok ni mama tak pandai handle lagi silap2 dgn mama sama nangis.Taking about early childhood education,lain parents lain targets and goals for their kids.Me?Saya not too much yg ok by age of 5 MESTI pandai baca.Ajarkan.Dpt Alhamdulillah.Tak dapat byk lagi masa insyaAllah.I believe kids learn at their own pace,jgn too memaksa tapi jangan buat tatau langsung.everyday pon mama try to be consistent la dgn jadual muhriz ni kindy until 12pm-rehat,main and nap-iqra/reading/activity book-tv-playground .Malam we go free and easy sebab depa nak gomol babah huhu.Playtime is important.They learn a lot by playing. Awal2 ni for me it's more important to groom our anak to be a self learner.Yang ada minat nak belajar.Yang sentiasa curious.kita as parents can only provide them within our means,kalau anak mmg ada passion,they will wing themselves and the rest will fall into places.ok nak join nap muh2!


2 comments:

Cik CT said...

gone through your blog while i'm in the middle of difficulty..mil is dying (stage 4 cancer) n i still cant visit her due to my dotter is warded too i another hosp.n was remind not to take too much leave by my boss..Allahuakbar..i hold ur words that Allah takkan menguji seseorang diluar batasnya. and hopefully i'll b strong as u are..take care sis..may Allah bless you n family.

Ami said...

salam cik ct.kalau nak dikira ujian kami ni sikit je,saya pon selalu ingatkan kalau susah,ada lagi yg diuji lagi kuat.thank you semoga sentiasa diberkati juga insyaAllah

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