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harith ami & muhriz

Sudah balik London :(
Eh tak boleh sedih2 as i'm going to see hubby again in 4 weeks insyaAllah:)

Boleh tak the immigration officer at Munich Airport tue ckp,
"i guess you'll be visiting Munich again in Februa
ry right"?
Sebab die tgk history,i have been traveling in and out of Munich every month since Oct,
and that was my 9th trip to Munich sebenarnya.
But no Mr Officer,i wont be traveling next month.
InsyaAllah February is hubby's turn:)
Ich vermisse dich!

We have been on long distance relationship
since 2002 (Msia/USA,USA/Germany,Msia/Germany and currently Germany/UK) .InsyaAllah if our plans run smoothly,end of the year nie dah boleh join hubby hurray!Being apart makes a marriage really challenging but alhamdulillah we make it through.

Some sharing from the nets on maintaining a long distance marriage:

Main keys are communication,commitment,discipline and trust :)
  1. Keep the lines of communication open on a daily basis.
  2. Being committed to one another and truly believing that your spouse belives in the marriage commitment is vital.
  3. A long distance marriage will fail if there is a lack of trust between the partners.
  4. Although you are apart from one another, make time for one another.You can do this with instant messaging service--Skyping is the best!!
  5. Share your expectations about being apart from one another. Also share your expectations when you are close to being together again.
  6. Be honest about your concerns and fears about your separation.
  7. Give one another a scented pillow case or shirt to help keep your presence with them->i cant sleep w/o hubby's kain pelikat kehkeh
  8. Plan a trip or some fun activity to do when the two of you are back together.
  9. Surprise each other once in a while . Send care cards/packages to each other now and then.-->owh you gotta ask my hubby how many cards did i send him,especially when i was in the States!I love Hallmark's card collection hihi


Anonymous said...

i plak tak bole tido tanpa my hub's tshirt.heheheeeee...
true! true! trust is the key for LDM nih.


Ami said...

aida, lame2 hubby's cloth yg kite buat tido tue pon dah tade his smell sebenarnye,tapi still kene ade jugak kan,tak boleh tido karang :p

Liyana said...

I totally agree with your opinion on LDM.Thanks for sharing :)

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