Goodbye Deutschland,Hello again London :(

Sudah balik London :(

Eh tak boleh sedih2 as i'm going to see hubby again in 4 weeks insyaAllah:)

Boleh tak the immigration officer at Munich Airport tue ckp,
"i guess you'll be visiting Munich again in February right"?
Sebab die tgk history,i have been traveling in and out of Munich every month since Oct,
and that was my 9th trip to Munich sebenarnya.
But no Mr Officer,i wont be traveling next month.
InsyaAllah February is hubby's turn:)
Ich vermisse dich!

We have been on long distance relationship since 2002 (Msia/USA,USA/Germany,Msia/Germany and currently Germany/UK) .InsyaAllah if our plans run smoothly,end of the year nie dah boleh join hubby hurray!Being apart makes a marriage really challenging but alhamdulillah we make it through.

Some sharing from the nets on maintaining a long distance marriage:

Main keys are communication,commitment,discipline and trust :)

1. Keep the lines of communication open on a daily basis.
2. Being committed to one another and truly believing that your spouse belives in the marriage commitment is vital.
3. A long distance marriage will fail if there is a lack of trust between the partners.
4. Although you are apart from one another, make time for one another.You can do this with instant messaging service--Skyping is the best!!
   
5. Share your expectations about being apart from one another. Also share your expectations when you are close to being together again.
6. Be honest about your concerns and fears about your separation.
7. Give one another a scented pillow case or shirt to help keep your presence with them->i cant sleep w/o hubby's kain pelikat kehkeh
   
8. Plan a trip or some fun activity to do when the two of you are back together.
9. Surprise each other once in a while . Send care cards/packages to each other now and then.-->owh you gotta ask my hubby how many cards did i send him,especially when i was in the States!I love Hallmark's card collection hihi
   

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year all!
Whoops lmbt eh,3rd Jan baru nak wish hehe.

We didnt join the crowd for New Year count down,saye takot fireworks jatuh atas kepala lagi huhu.Macam biase in Deutschland nie,kalau on public holidays,semua kedai including shopping mall akan tutup.So we just stayed indoor,tgk tv,masak and study!
Hee kate students kan,hubster's exam starts in 2 weeks while yours truly cam biase lah,buat coursework!

Wokie,2009's plan:

-To complete my MSc by end of Sept insyaAllah
-To get preggy.Hee dah 2 yrs+ jeolous tgk org lain ade baby :p!
-If hubby succeeds his plan A,i need to polish my Deutsch kot:p
-Mau balik msia end of the year!Be it just for holiday or for good,tgk rezeki.
-To save more and spend less since there're going to be a lot of travelling between London and Munich(and other parts of Europe i hope!)